Classy vs. Sexy vs. Dolla Dolla Bill yo!

I've been procrastinating on writing this blog post because I wasn't sure what to say without offending some people. And I certainly don't have all the answers when it comes to what attracts males/females/whatever you're into. But I did want to address some things I've seen.

In my opinion it's far sexier to dress in a way that flatters your figure than a way that shows a lot of skin. As a big girl, it's harder to "get away" with most club wear because it's short, slutty and tight. I don't think that most skinny girls get away with it either, but they usually give off the general sexy impression, while we give off the desperate vibe. So girls, I've got a couple of rules. 1. Wear some damn underwear, especially if you're wearing a skirt, and no, hose don't count as underwear. 2. Just because it "fits" doesn't mean you should wear it. Pay less attention to the size and more attention to how it looks on you. 3. Being comfortable, stylish, and confident is sexy! and 4. More is just more. You get what you give.

This was probably more of a self esteem post than a fashion post. But I see a lot of big women out there that wear clothes that are unflattering, and likely it stems from a self esteem issue. I seriously doubt that any of these women are that confident with their body shape and size, or they wouldn't feel the need to exhibit it.

I'm sure that some will disagree with me. I've seen friends wear clothes that don't flatter their bodies because they insecure and want to attract attention. And usually the attention is negative and is always sexual in nature. I want to be seen as the intelligent individual I am, and I'm not going to get that kind of attention with my ass and tits showing. Just not the way things work. I think I'm going to start taking pictures of some of my "going out" outfits and putting them up here. Let me know if you think this is a good idea, and feel free to critique me, I have pretty thick skin.

So, stay classy ladies